Continued from yesterday...
Being a man is to provide and protect - in the best way for ALL
It requires common sense and creativity in the approach
Let's open up the point
I forgive myself that i had accepted and allowed myself to believe that being a man means I can harm and kill anything that is a threat, and that is the ultimate trump card by which I can win and prove I am a man
I forgive myself that I had accepted and allowed myself to believe that being a man means I am stoic, and show no emotion, only stability in my expression and never show any weakness whatsoever
Within this I forgive myself that I had not accepted and allowed myself to realize that it does make sense to be CLEAR when I do share and when I do speak, it doesn't mean I need to 'pretend' I have it all figured out, but its a blend of humility in the obvious fact that I am a human walking my journey to be the best I can be, and so of course there will be steps along the way where I fail, trip and then have to figure it out, and also though, to be a leader, to trust myself and to guide the way in the best way I see how and to build systems around this so that together we can learn faster, and ensure we have outcomes that are best for all
I forgive myself that I had accepted and allowed myself to belive that a man must look a certain way
I forgive myself that I had accepted and allowed myself to believe that a man must speak in a certain way
I forgive myself that I had not accepted and allowed myself to realize that being a man - and the human male design, is such that in its best expression is one that is able to focus, to step up and get shit done, and to act in a way that allows for oneself AND for all, to be provided for and protected. This requires strength, wisdom and willingness to take the necessary actions
I forgive myself that I had accepted and allowed myself to believe that provide means to just care about myself and my bloodline only, where I provide resources to ensure my self, my partner, my kids and my immediate tribe are cared for only... while this does make sense that this obviously needs to be taken care of, only stopping here creates the stupid tribal mentality that has locked us into a techno-feudal state currently in the dynamic of human history, where we are tribes built on identity, enslaving ourselves into a technocratic super system that mines our energy and wellbeing for profit in the hands of a few individuals and corporations - and a REAL man will see this and step up, and do their best to figure out how the hell we can change this system, and dedicate themselves to creating a BETTER solution every single day instead of accepting this mediocre version of reality we have trapped ourselves into
I forgive myself that I had accepted and allowed myself to believe that providing is JUST about money and resources, instead of seeing that providing is also about being present, supporting people, taking the time to invest my focus into the right points in the system of change, so that I can push points and move people forward, and to also have the self awareness to see where I am stuck, and to ask for help - Providing is more than resources, it is the intentional use of my attention and others attention so we can collectively change our agreements, our standards and thus act in a way where self-responsibility is fully undertaken and thus we can hold a new system in place where the outcomes are one that honors life and ensures everyone has their needs covered, and the education needed to go beyond just basic human survival and actually create the coolest reality possible - as a man I am the structure to help hold this in place so we can change the world, one person, one system at a time
I forgive myself that I had accepted and allowed myself to not realize that the word protector has been abused in our society, glorifying the military and violent aspects of it - instead of realizing that a protector is an educated man, who knows how to play the game of the system, understands the implications that we are in a reality where there is abuse, where there are unstable adults and there is a need to have common sense and not just trust any random stranger, yet within this to not live in fear rather to be proactive and focus on what is worthwhile to focus on. For example I could spend 5 hours a day training how to use my guns, how to win in a fist fight, so that if i'm at the mall and someone attacks me I could theoretically win. I could waste my entire life training for that and thus co-creating that... OR I could dedicate my time every day to educate myself and educate others, to build our vocabulary to actually change our way of seeing, to put people into place where they can take responsibility for systems and processes to ensure that our kids are being raised in a way where they don't want to abuse people, where they actually CONSIDER what is best for all.. So that me as a man as a protector, I am part of the transition team. Going from a system slave, to a leader in the system, so eventually we can have a system where we don't need leaders, we just need self-leaders, ones able to work together in equality to make decisions and create outcomes that honor all life
I forgive myself that I had accepted and allowed myself to glorify men in the system who I think look bad ass, or they act in a certain way or make a certain amount of money, and to think 'wow they are so skilled I want to be like them' yet not seeing all the fortune they made on the backs of an unequal system. Take Jeff Bezos or Elon Musk for example - one could say 'wow those men have really figured out how to crush it, make billions and create 'world changing technology' yet the fact is, Jeff Bezos has millions of people he is responsible for, and ultimately is automating the majority of them with robots. He HAS to - he is playing the game in the system. If he doesn't, someone else will. The old system is a lose-lose. A real man will now SEE this, not go into pity over how fucked it is. Rather just breathe and step the fuck up and say - I will be part of the solution. And then honestly get involved in it. Not just 'be aware' its a problem. But actually MAN UP and be part of the change
I forgive myself that i had accepted and allowed myself to not realize that my actions I take every day have an impact on the people around me, the actions I take AND the actions I leave undone. And this accumulates in my life. Will I be proud of the man I become? Or will I have regret?
I know which decision I have made.
I realize the world needs a entire new level of MAN stepping forth
I realize there is already a group of us doing this, and our group is figuring out how to get extremely effective at this
I realize our kids are going to be a key part of the system change
I realize that education and changing vocabulary at the unconscious level - is the most powerful tool of human evolution
I realize that as a man my role is to provide and protect life - and to share this vision and express myself to the best of my ability every day
I commit myself to show what's possible for men
I commit myself to challenge men when they have no purpose, or a detrimental purpose, to be that influence in their life to call them up to their highest potential
I commit myself to stand in the shoes of all people and things, to not hate the people who play the game and profit off abuse, as hate is not a solution, rather to create solutions where the new system we build makes the old one obsolete
I commit myself to be an example of what the best version of a man can be, and to welcome every step along the way as this is what I was born to do
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