Blame = Be Lame
I forgive myself that I had accepted and allowed myself to not realize blame = be lame
I forgive myself that I had accepted and allowed myself to disempower myself in a moment by going into blame and not seeing it
I forgive myself that I had not accepted and allowed myself to challenge myself to hunt down every single point of blame within me, where I accept and allow this weakness, in direct AND indirect ways where I go into blaming instead of taking self-responsibility
I forgive myself that I had accepted and allowed myself - to from the beginning of time as me - to live within separation of myself, not seeing the inner equality in every single aspect of my life. For example - I see my fellow human being, I see us as separate - when in reality we are made of the same substance, inherently equal
Within this I forgive myself that I had accepted and allowed myself to become lame/impotent in my separation, where I approach my relationships from my limited perspective thinking I’m just ‘me’ instead of realizing its a ‘we’ as US, and when we have true coordination between us - this creates a synergy of what’s possible when we work together. If I can stay focused on GIVING and creating - rather than trying to just ‘get by’ so ‘I can be good’ there is infinitely more possiblities for life to come through
I forgive myself that I had accepted and allowed myself to react to when my wife/significant other asks me to do something for her - where I am already ‘in the zone’ focused on what I want to focus on, she interrupts my focus with something important, and immediately I go into annoyance (BLAME) as the root of this.. I see myself unequal to her, like I don’t need to do it, I try and ‘get out’ of doing it, and overall fuck our relationship over … and these little patterns accumulate
I forgive myself that i had not accepted and allowed msyelf to realize the fundamental reason the giving/creating dynamic as self-responsibility - this is possible BECAUSE our relationship is built on agreement - thus the ultimate ANTIDONE to ‘B-Lame’
I forgive myself that I had not accepted and allowed myself to realize that as I eradicate blame - like the cancerous pattern it is - I free up more mental, physical and energetic capabilites to physcially support myself to create a wondrous life - walking together as equals - because my focus is on What can I GIVE not just ‘what can I get’ and in the giving, and in the setting up and 1+1 automating and accumulating this, over time this accumulates into a magnificent life that is orders of magnitude superior to the life where I just try and care about myself - thus the b-lameful living is obviously inferior to the living as agreement as both taking self-responsibility to the fullest
I forgive myself that i had not accepted and allowed myself to realize that there is trust that needs to build which is actually self-trust and the effective communication as equals, becasue there is the fear of ‘what if I give and they take advantage’ - again - BLAME. Blaming the other for not speaking up instead of self taking self responsibility to take the step, to be for-giving, and as this - to effectively support my partner to reciprocate and create the mastermind as the principle of two or more in the name of life
I forgive myself that I had accepted and allowed myself to associate blame with a feeling of superiority as if I can be the victim I am thus special and ‘you owe me’ and ‘I am oppressed’ by you, thus I will wallow in my pity to make you feel bad and make me special —— ultimately fucking over both of us and all involved and all things that stem from us — this is a ‘rotten fruit’ that will create impotent seeds…
Instead of the - Living Realization here as follows
I realize that the seeds that come forth from me and my partner as self-responsibility as self for GIVENESS as our living principle - this creates millions of seeds that will bear millions of more seeds. It is truly life-giving, but blame is the poison that blocks it
I realize self-forgiveness is the solution to blame
I realize that blame can be converted to self-responsibility and sharing, as the more I can share my self, my perspective, my communication will be able to create the roots within the relationship that allows for the flourishing. Communicating helps, isolating does not help
I realize that being in pity, acting as a victim, is a cancer to my life, and I commit myself to eradicate every last point of blame, pity and inequality where I believe I’m special and ‘greater’ and ‘entitled to feel some type of way’
I commit myself to show that I can be an example of what’s possible to 100% live self-responsbility for the rest of my life, and to show what’s possible when one is giving for real - then as this, cultivate a network and community where this is the norm and change the culture - as the culture allows us to cultivate the seeds of the new world
I commit myself to notice every point of blame that comes up - to get to the root of why its there, to forgive it and live to the commitment of self-responsibility
I commit myself to challenge the others playing the blame game, help them see the limitation - through asking questions, through sharing stories and fundamentally supporting them - as CARE. As if I just let them participate in their blame game and be lame, its me also holding on to a point of ‘blame’ that ‘they should just figure it out on their own’… They won’t. I am able to plant seeds. I will plant the seeds. This is the seeds we need to create the new world
I commit myself to show that responsibility feels better than blame, in the moment it may be easier to blame but ultimately creates consequence… responsibility requires self forgiveness and intentional will power - YET over time this becomes automated as part of me as who I am and thus I resonate self-responsibility and its automatic.. and my world reshapes around me
The more we do this - the more we create the world we want to see
Drop the b-lame
Don’t be lame
Time we take self-responsibility, change the game
And change what life means - so we can change the world
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