Day 9 - Relationships as Agreements

Note - Each of these blogs can be read individually, or in order. Its suggested to read them out loud, it will have 1000x the benefit.

One of the core principles that I live in my life by is the principle of relationships as agreements

It doesn’t mean every single relationship in my life it is explicitly laid out

But for all of my core relationships, especially in my marriage, I agree to living what is best for all and the other 12 principles laid out here

This has allowed me to experience a whole new level of love, enjoyment, stability and creative power that was impossible for me to do without the agreements 

I forgive myself that I’ve accepted and allowed myself to not realize that I can build my relationship based on agreements

I forgive myself that I’ve accepted and allowed myself to build relationships based on feelings only 

I forgive myself that I’ve accepted and allow myself to build my relationship relationships without intention 

I forgive myself that I’ve accepted and allow myself to believe that relationships will just magically work out, and I will be special and not be one of the people who have their relationships fall apart, even though in our world, there is currently an excessively high divorce rate, people creating superficial relationships, and this has become the norm in the world 

I forgive myself that I’ve not accepted and allow myself to realize that with having a relationship based on agreements, this serves as an example of what’s possible for true love to manifest 

I forgive myself that I’ve accepted and allow myself. Do not realize that relationships based on agreements allows for firm foundation upon which life can thrive. 

I forgive myself that I’ve accepted and allow myself to not realize that the agreements that are best to base the relationship on are the 13 principles specifically starting with what is best for all as this aligns the relationship to life itself 

I forgive myself that I had accepted and allow myself to believe that having a relationship based on agreements will be boring and not have the fun that I saw from the examples of the “highs and lows” as seen in culture and media 

I forgive myself that I’ve not accepted and allow myself to realize that if a relationship is based off a feeling of love, then it will be fleeting, but if the relationship is based on making love real through holding in agreement to each truly honor each other’s best potential, that a LASTING joy and happiness comes from this 

I forget myself that I have accepted and allow myself to become addicted to the thrill of highs and lows in a relationship 

I forget myself that I’ve accepted and allow myself to consciously and unconsciously create drama in relationships to get an energetic experience 

I forgive myself I’ve not accepted myself to realize that the more people in our world can create relationships, both with significant other and in community, the more we have this the more stability will be brought to our world 

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to fear being in a relationship based on agreements, as I had not had agreements with myself, and thus the commitment had seemed like too much to me 

I realize that initially I make the agreement with myself as who I am and who I will be within my life and thus my relationships

I realize that relationship based on feelings is ultimately not sustainable

I realize that the relationship based on agreements specifically the agreement of what is best for all will allow the creation of my best life

I commit myself to establish my relationship with myself based on agreements 

I commit myself to establish my significant relationship relationships in my life based on agreements 

I commit myself too, even if and when I fall to get back up and hold myself to the agreements, as this is a source of strength in my life that will allow me to endure any challenge I may face

I commit myself to be an example for others to show what is possible with creating relationships based in agreement