Day 6 - Unity within Community

Note - Each of these blogs can be read individually, or in order. Its suggested to read them out loud, it will have 1000x the benefit.

Community, relationships, isolation, tribal mentality, being alone, being together...

All of these are ideas and words that are not in alignment with what's best currently.

Let's change that 

I forgive myself that I had accepted and allowed myself to not see the word UNITY in community

I forgive myself that I had accepted and allowed myself to not want to be around others 

I forgive myself that I had accepted and allowed myself to take others for granted

I forgive myself that I had accepted and allowed myself to not realize that I spent much of my life building my relationships and friendships off of a 'give and take' equation where I would subconsciously just try to take from relationships, focusing more on my survival instead of actually working together and supporting another

I forgive myself that I had accepted and allowed myself to believe that I can figure everything out on my own

I forgive myself that I had not accepted and allowed myself to realize that coordination amongst community can create super powers, specifically when we are united in purpose and in principles (specifically the principle of what is best for all and the 13 seen here in Self-Perfected), there is a subconscious coordination that is a cohesive force that allows each individual to be accountable to their best version of themselves, and this is best for me and best for them, thus best for all

I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to believe that I don't need to consistently pour into my relationships

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not hold others to the standard I want to be held to, such as when someone commits to something, and they fall short, that instead of calling them out at times I will hold back and not bring it to their attention, which is really just me living self-interest and fear and doubt

I forgive myself that I have not accepted and allowed myself to realize that relationships and community built in agreement of the principles, that this community will synchronize in a way that allows for a group resonance to emerge that has influence and strength at a level never before seen in humanity, as the principle of equality and oneness had not fully been embraced until here

I forgive myself that I had accepted and allowed myself to not see that self-perfection is impossible on one's own, and requires the group, because self is part of the whole, and thus implies other human beings, and within this I forgive myself that I have not allowed self and community perfection, the refining of ourselves, showing up in the best way, accumulating 1+1 as each individual aligning themselves with what's best and as a community adding 1+1 new people to the group, and this group itself is self-perfection in action

I forgive myself that I had accepted and allowed myself to get lazy and not prioritize the growing and strengthening of the community, specifically the self-perfected community, of which we are all ABLE to be part of, yet the measure of how consistently I show up, how much I share, how much I GIVE, how much I focus on adding to the group, this is a measurement of me becoming self-perfected

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to participate in tribal psychology, believing that I must make sure my tribe survives and the other tribes do not take 'what is ours' failing to realize the obvious, that effective education, effective communication, and realizing the abundance that is here, we can create systems so all are able to be provided for, and we can unlock the greater tribe/team which is life itself, which we are all part of

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to prioritize trying to feel special and unique, instead of realizing my uniqueness IS inherent in the fact I am a human being, I have a certain skillset and signature of who I am that CAN contribute to the group, and the real focus ought not be on the differences that make me feel like I have a unique status and perception of me, rather what is unique is my ability to give of myself to others, and in that giving, finding out the real secret to life

When and as I notice myself participating in NOT being an equal in the community, I stop and I breathe

I commit myself to show that I can be both whole within myself, and also part of the whole group, as Ken Wilber coined the term a 'holon', which a whole and part of a whole simultaneously, like in the word hologram or holograph.. 

I realize that community is always going to be part of life, why not make it the best?

I realize that community is a chance for me to really see who I am and what I am made of. Will I share and raise the collective potential? or will I hold back?

I commit myself to raise our collective potential, to show up as my best, to honor myself AND honor all

I commit myself to be worthy of being an example for others to follow

I commit myself to raise my kids and the future generations to understand the principle of equality and oneness as what's best for all so this is natural to them and they can innovate our understanding of what society and culture looks like, what the collective values and principles can be, and with an effective education and communication ability we actually unlock a whole new level of reality, as we work together as a group and have a coherence that has never before been seen

The community I refer to is Self-Perfected. Join us each Friday we do a hangout on Zoom at 6 pm EST/5 pm CST. Make time for it. Give and contribute. And you may just get everything you ever wanted and THEN SOME MORE