Day 97 - The Polarity Trap

Day 97 - The Polarity Trap

What I mean by polarity is with electromagnetics there is a positive and a negative side. They repel each other. 

And when we see only ONE side of a situation, refusing to see the other, refusing to forgive the situation overall, only participating in resistance, and not coming up with a solution that is actually best for the WHOLE.... well.. that is the polarity trap. 

For context on how the mind is a polarity system, watch this short 1 minute video

We get stuck and further create more polarization and problems.

The situation in Minneapolis has been escalating over the past few weeks

This is the city I was born in, I love this city. I see it has become a conflict zone with the underlying tensions raising to the surface. 

I see both sides

On one hand - you have people seeing ICE as a police force exerting their power, killing Americans and rounding up people to deport them. 

On the other hand - you have ICE rounding up criminals who have committed crimes to get them out of America. 

In both ways of looking at it, its a split view with both sides not willing to see the other.

And I get that but the purpose of this blog today is to bring it back to SELF. 

Notice where we are 'dug in' into our current way of seeing things that we are not making room for solutions to emerge.

On one hand you can take it to the extreme that ICE is a fascist regime with potential to be worse than anything we've ever seen. 

On the other hand the other argument is 'if you're not breaking the law, then you have nothing to worry about', ICE is doing good work to remove violent and dangerous people from America.

All of this is shrouded in propaganda, high emotion and violence.

I do know we can all bring it back to ourselves.

And this is what my blog is about today for those who can see this and genuinely WANT to create solutions. 

It's gonna come from life within us emerging forth. Not from sticking to our polarity trap.

So the question - 

Where are we each going into the polarity trap? 

This looks like ONLY seeing it from our side, and looking at the components instead of at the system.

I see my role in this is the change the system, and this starts with changing myself and helping the others who can see this approach

So thus, bringing it back to self - self-forgiveness

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not understand the other side of a disagreement

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe I am always 100% right and the other side is wrong

I forgive myself that I have not accepted and allowed myself to realize that my foundational understanding of the world, of my entire vocabulary and the words I use, has come from a educational system that taught me to think it 'parts' instead of seeing the 'whole' so by default I see the symptoms but not the problem

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to take for granted the underlying conditions here causing the issue, our education system has failed us, our money system keeps us indebted as slaves to a survival based system, and we each have accumulated memories/thoughts/emotions within ourselves, and the amount of self-forgiveness and self-correction is minimal...

All of these components:
Education system (meaning the vocabulary and fundamentally how we define our world)

The money system - how we value money over human life

Our own mind-system - how we have a constant stream of new thoughts, feelings, emotions coming from emotionally charged memories, and we don't know how to automatically instantly process it and be able to remain here, clear and directing reality...

ALL of these systems are intertwined and each as an individual can take responsibility

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe I can just sit on the sidelines, let these sides battle it out

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that 'getting off the sidelines' doesn't mean that I now go on the front lines where ICE and the protestors are clashing, its rather creating the strategic systematic input to create the voter base and political party that is EDUCATED, understands systems thinking, and can together come about with systematic solutions such as - effective training, clear understanding of the law, clear understanding of what immigration means, understanding what is legal vs illegal, understanding what is the role of community, what kind of principles are our communities going to be built within, what is the cooperation of state and national government. All of these are systems that need to be purified, because we have a polarity trap at each and every level. Both 'sides' see it different, and thus no coherence and thus maximum chaos until its sorted.

I can do my part

I can unite those looking to make the difference, those who are driven, those who are open to standing in the shoes of another and seeing what will make this best for all.

For example - with our money system built on the US dollar where we print money from the Federal Reserve, you may not see how that is related in the moment and that just shows you how the education system didn't help us understand the world for real.

For example - why are there so many immigrants coming to America?

America has systematically fucked over the world as they rose to Empire over the years

It's not to blame. This is about 100% responsibility.

But if the conditions in Guatemala for example, were so good, everyone thriving, everyone educated and a money system that allowed for people's basic needs to be met, over 1-2 generations this would be a better place where the people would not seek to come to America because their homeland would be set up systematically for thriving, bringing about the best local economy, local communities etc.

But all of this requires HUMANS who actually care, who are willing to drop their biases, willing to re-educate themselves, understand systems thinking and understand that how we define words (consciously and unconsciously) this is vital to understanding how to change our world.

This is what I am focused on every day through uniting more and more of the change makers, the anomalies to the current system.

I can see both sides. I can see this is unsustainable if we keep at our current rate of clashing.

So instead of 'locking in' and saying 'this is the way I've always seen it, this is how I'm gonna see it' rather review these principles and ask yourself... am I willing to figure out what this looks like to LIVE, and am I willing to find the others who are open enough to hear this...

And then 1+1 we can make the change grassroots. Don't the kids of the future deserve it?

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to hold onto the polarity trap, seeing only part of the solution and not the whole thing, because I am stuck in the energy of the situation instead of seeing the life force within all, that wants to come through as we create solutions that are best for all Life, honoring Life because reality IS Life and reality doesn't want to suffer. Reality wants to emerge in a way that honors all Life. We must align with it and as it.

I commit myself to as LIFE, drop the polarity, to breathe, to see the solutions of coming together within principle, re-educating the world 1 by 1 and creating a solution to the education system, to the culture, to the money system and how we see each other. 

Day 96 - Progress in Process

Day 96 - Progress in Process

Read the self-forgiveness out loud

I have been publishing more content to my social media, to Self-Perfected and to our local groups.

I have found a consistency to it where its begun to accumulate more than ever before.

I realize there is a process of progress - where I make a decision to do something

I do the work, and it unfolds over weeks...

And I am aware there is a certain amount of work that must accumulate to hit a result

I realize that there is also a progress to my process. 

My process being my journey from my preprogramming to standing here as Life as the principle of what is best for all, and within that I see new positions open up, new opportunities manifest, and each day I get to navigate what is best to do. 

I am seeing people around me who are also walking this process, some for years, some are newer. 

I see them making big moves, standing up, starting relationships, moving their families to better places, stepping up overall. 

Each have their location point to establish.

I am grateful that many of them are local to me so my wife and kids get that in person reference. For you reading this who don't have a thriving local community... make it happen! 

I also see the world system evolving. 

I have watched the Game Theory series from Predictive History. 

And we discuss the common sense solutions view on the Self-Perfected podcast every week

The system is breaking down.

I am here to help it build back in the best way only. Only keeping what's best. 

This blog is about the pace of the progress of process.

If you are standing up for all Life, would reality turn its back on you? 

Or is reality here as Life as support. 

We each must stand

I am seeing more and more that reality is here to support.

So I take on the responsibility to share even more. 

It's 22 days into 2026. I have new campaigns I am launching with marketing, with locally growing our community and with Self-Perfected. 

I see more people are ready for us. 

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that my progress within my process is a reference point for me to see what is working and what is not working, and a constant reminder of WHO I AM. Am I directing or am I avoiding the next step of change?

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to take for granted my relationships in process, where I get feedback from others. 

I see that I naturally have built my life around this process, AS this process really... my day to day and my week to week where I am surrounded by others who can provide a cross-reference for me. 

Where as core to my mission is to help more people be aware of the value of their own Life, their process, and learning that they can shed the old and be their best self. 

Within this I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize all of the points that fit in to helping someone start the process well, and stay steady:

Using writing every day, reprogramming vocabulary every day, having local community within the Self-Perfected group. 

With the clear decision on 'why am I walking this process" then these 3 aspects (writing, reprogramming and community) will guarantee one will have progress in process

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that we have a substantial group, at a fully different 'collective location point' that the underlying point when I joined 6 years ago - was that our group was 'on the edge' and kind of 'out there' by questioning reality - where now we have so many families, 'normal' people in the group, and it's normal for people to wake up and question the world... the world is in a new spot. 

What a unique moment in time to catalyze us to grow even bigger and better....

I realize that daily I can make progress in process

I realize that a constant in my process is my ability to wake up early and do this level of clear thinking/writing/focusing/reprogramming early in the day, that this is life-changing

I realize that we have a new system here already. As I talk about changing the system. The birth of the new system is already here, from the old, its the 13 principles. Its a way of living. And from this life expands.

Read day 33-36 about the pillars of the system

I realize that in my progress of my process, it's a constantly coming back to Who I Am. 

Not letting the little things add up throughout the day of little mind accumulation points.

Processing my mind real time and daily with discipline.

I commit myself to stand as support for any and every person who is in this process, through me doing my best in my positions of responsibility to create the new system based in the principles.

I commit myself to find the next person, one at a time, who is ready and can hear this. As the constancy of this commitment and action of finding the next person, I am resonating this action which is 1+1 accumulation, which that focused intention resonating - that is the power of creation for self and for all

Let's continue to step up and be the change we need to see in the world.

Day 95 - Fit In

Day 95 - Fit In

I was reminded of the quote today 'You are the average of the 5 people you spend the most time wit'

I will also touch on 'fitting in'

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that I am limited to 'being the average of the 5 people I spend the most time with'

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to look at the people around me and to judge them for their level of success in the system

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to judge myself within the context of my success in the system

I forgive myself that I have not accepted and allowed myself to realize that judging myself and judging others, like I am a judge in the court of my mind giving sentences to the characters, that this is a 'valid' use of my time and energy, when in reality the only necessity is for me to right myself through writing and living words where my self-honest self-corrective application is the proof of my process

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to obsess over fitting in, looking to outside validation to see whether I am successful

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to care about fitting in, from the starting point of not wanting to feel bad for being excluded from the group 

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not question where my desire to fit in comes from for real

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to blindly believe the story that back in the day we were in tribes and if we were cut out, we would die, this may or may not have been true - the only relevant factor is that community IS essential in human life, as we are social creatures, interdependent, so my purpose is to create the best culture and best group that encompasses all humanity, as we are all one big group and THIS is the group to 'fit in' to within this I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that fit is to be redefined as my ability to fit in my location point, coordinated with all others, as the optimization of our individual and collective potential

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe the brainwashing program of 'survival of the fittest' to be a worthy principle, when survival as the starting point is going to be limited. I am here to truly live, not just survive

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not push the boundaries of what is possible as creating the change of the culture so that the group here that will support me, as I will equally support the group - IS here. We have the group founded in principles as Self-Perfected the living word of humans becoming self-perfected, equal and one living the best life creating heaven on earth. This is the mission, this is the purpose, this IS what it means to fit in as humanity as life manifest here 

I realize that as I continually apply myself within my process, more and more people will join us

I realize that human beings here are waking up to varying degrees

I realize that me as LIFE has the opportunity to get through to them

I realize that my relationships do affect me, and I affect my relationships, as the evolution of the phrase 'you are the average of the 5 people you spend the most time with' as the transformation of myself and all those connected to me into a coordinated group that raises what average actually means

I realize that average must become principled, where the average human on planet earth adopts the principle of best for all, self awareness, self-perfection, self-honesty, self-responsibility, giving as we would like to receive and honoring life in all forms

I realize that this is possible to be the change I want to see in the world

I realize that in my relationships I can become even more effective at helping people break their brainwashing to realize that as they are willing to step away from their old life, their old relationships, that there is an entire network of support as Self-Perfected is here to play this role as the community we have all actually sought out. It's HERE... and thus...

I commit myself to share Self-Perfected even more effectively

I commit myself to distribute the right content, the right tools and the right message every single day

I commit myself to shock myself and the world with what is possible for one human being to do as living fearlessly sharing

I commit myself to show that I do 'fit in', but not in the old system way, but in the NEW system way, the LIVING SYSTEM where I fit in as my location point within and as equality and oneness where I stand as absolute self-responsibility in my position as we purify the system that is here

Day 94 - Standing to Falling Ratio

Day 94 - Standing to Falling Ratio

I just got off the Self-Perfected Podcast Episode 278 and this point is abundantly clear

For those of you walking this process - you have moments where you have STOOD UP and directed your life

And you have had moments where you have fallen

You will have to determine that within your self-honesty. Use the group for cross-reference because especially early on you can fuck with yourself and 'think' you are standing but not really. Because it has no physical effect

So this is the point:

Figure out lets say if there are 7 days a week, in how many of those days have you STOOD

Have you stood up for the principles

Have you directed others

Is it 1 day a week?

Is it 7 days in a row, like a 'hot streak'?

Here's some self forgiveness

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to delude myself into my conscious mind thoughts and to not get clear understanding of what is actually happening in my life

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to avoid looking at the data, the results and the proof - and to clearly define what the 'results' are that I am looking to create in my life specifically with my impact I am here to make in the world with influencing others to walk their process and be part of changing the system

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to OVER-focus on data, thinking that I need metrics for every single thing in my life in order to make any substantial progress

I forgive myself that I have not accepted and allowed myself to realize the best for all balance, between all the polarities within myself of hyper focusing on 'numbers' or hyper avoiding 'numbers' and thus the proof of how I am standing - and within all of this I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize there is a basic filter I can commit to have installed within me as living words - as the statement that "In each breath, and thus in each moment, I am committed to stand, and I will either be standing up and a source of responsibility, or I will be in a point of abdication, and thus my standing can be quantified"

I commit myself to stand as the quantification of my process which is a simple marker that - How many days did I self-honestly STAND versus not stand. This will be a process of self-honesty and not getting 'lost in the tendency to over complicate my life' like my mind loves to do

It's an internal reference and filter I am committed to live, where at the end of each day I can ask myself - did I actually stand?

What did I learn from today?

Where did I fall?

Where may I fall?

And within this I commit myself to live the accumulation of the result of me having an ever increasing standing to falling 'ratio' where I can perfect where Each day I stand, and ultimately in each breath I stand, and thus strengthen myself, others and ultimately purify the system through me as LIFE being here directing each moment 

Day 93 - A New Kind of Politics

Day 93 - A New Kind of Politics

This is a repost from my facebook yesterday. 

In light of the ICE agent shooting Renee Good, there is an extreme polarization happening.

I saw the videos from multiple angles. 

It is horrible that she got shot and died. 

Why that entire situation happened? We could speculate all day.

This was an outflow of an extremely tense situation and quick decisions that resulted in a loss of life which is a tragedy. 

This is the way I make sense of it so we can create solutions where this kind of situation does not need to happen. 

THE ORIGINAL POST

A thought experiment - SUSPEND YOUR JUDGMENTENT FOR A MOMENT AND JUST READ THIS -

IMAGINE THIS - if we had a political party and politicians that could objectively make decisions that are best for everyone …

I mean, truly, if we had a way to verify that the decisions would not be detrimental to anyone involved , to the absolute best of our ability, would we vote for it?

I’m talking to basic things we can all agree on like clean water, nutritious food, shelter, effective education, not harming each other, having basic respect and understanding… all of these things - engineered into how we make decisions collectively through laws and social agreement

And obviously, it’s not gonna happen overnight, but it would require a group of individuals standing for this and actively co-creating this…

And for the sake of the thought experiment, just imagine we could objectively prove this that we could make decisions that minimize any consequence and maximize collective benefit …

Would you vote for that? I know I would 

We are at a dangerous point where people are so polarized and choosing one side and not willing to look at the other …

Where I see the only way through is solutions that are win-win-win

Good for you, good for me, good for everyone, including the planet.

What’s the alternative we just polarize ourselves into a straight up Civil War?

And create decades worth of consequence because we can’t see eye to eye on anything?

With all the people in the world and all the intelligence and money that we have, can’t we figure this out and reason it from first principles?

Are we gonna work to ways to see how we can actually figure out real solutions where we see the humanity and work towards solutions?

For example, right now, if the average person is in survival mode and can barely pay their bills and they are stressed out it’s extremely hard to thrive and make effective decisions…

We live in a system that does not support the average person whatsoever and these tensions escalate.

It is my intention and it is what I’m here to do - to figure out these solutions into established principles that we can all agree on with basic common sense

Even If the average person cant comprehend this yet, i see this Is worth dedicating myself to

Figure out how we can make the world best for everyone, and that starts in little solutions and steps. A WILLINGNESS.

It happens in the steps we need to take - every single day and the willingness to take self responsibility.

And obviously, education, REAL education is gonna be a key part of this. If we cannot communicate and agree on basic definitions of words, it’s gonna be impossible. But there are ways we can figure this out together 

Day 92 - 1x Speed

Day 92 - 1x Speed

As always read the self forgiveness out loud

I used to listen to audios as 1.5x or 2x speed

Then I realized I didn't have the space to process it

There's a time and place to listen a little faster, depending on the topic.. this is where self honesty comes in though

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to RUSH through life at the detriment of actually living

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to convolute the fact I have increased my processing speed through using specific tools so I then assumed that I can get the same value extracted from podcasts/audios/books if I go through them faster, failing to realize that the increased processing speed is actually an increased processing capacity, which allows me to connect and apply ideas so rushing through audios isn't needed, rather taking the time and space with the information and assessing real time in breath what can be applied and what can be discarded, this is real information processing capacity

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to create stress in my body from trying to listen faster, meanwhile missing big chunks of the information in moments where I am not present with my breath

I forgive myself that I had accepted and allowed myself to participate in the starting point of 'there is too much information and not enough time' therefor I 'must rush through' instead of realizing self trust with working with the priority information worth studying for my self-education

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to participate in a sense of superiority that I can consume a lot of knowledge, such as reading over 50 books a year or listening to hours of information on podcasts that is very sophisticated so I feel special, this is all a mind bullshit game not necessary, what matters is what is the data of what I have applied, how many people have I reached truly to have actual conversation that is at the cutting edge of advancing our collective process

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to move my body while not in breath and thus not in awareness

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to take so long to realize this obvious fact, that rushing through life not in awareness creates accumulated consequence, so I am rushing in my creation of consequence instead of steadily walking the cutting edge of time

I realize that in breathing, in awareness, being here, I can create more in one day that I did in a whole week of 'rushing' 

I realize that in the moments of listening to an audio, there is value in the time between the information, to allow my information processing capacity to work with the words and use the information that is here to create

I realize that the world system is designed to 'speed me up' to go at a million miles an hour, when what is best is to calibrate my mind to what is best for all and move at the speed of breathing

I commit myself to move at the speed of breath

I commit myself to show there is plenty of space and time to create the world to be best for all

I commit myself to practice the phrase 'no hurry, no pause' where there is no reason to delay doing what is best, as that accumulates consequence, and there is no reason to hurry, as that accumulates consequence, I can walk the balance of extremes to establish the best for all balance and direct myself to accomplish my priorities every day within self honesty and self awareness, this is my living commitment

Day 91 - Congruence

Day 91- Congruence

Read the self forgiveness out loud

When I say 'congruence' I mean doing the thing I say I'm gonna do

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe its OK to say I will do something and then not do it

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to hear the phrase 'your word is your bond' and then not take that seriously

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to be afraid of the word 'bond' that it somehow implies I have no freedom if I speak, that if I make an agreement then I need to 'remember to follow through' otherwise there is going to be consequence

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that self-honesty, self-forgiveness and self-corrective application is the solution to allowing my words to be a bond that is life giving, where I can use my words as self honesty as me as Life, and from this starting point I can forgive anything, and I can correct anything, so even if I do 'mess up' and break my bond/congruence I can correct it. It doesn't mean there isn't any consequence, but it means I can keep my integrity restored and continue to direct myself

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to have my fear of failure clouded in my fear of using words and making agreements, where I had feared failing in honoring my commitments and thus limited myself - failing to see the obvious that failure is part of success, failure is a roadmap for self-perfection where I can see where I fall short, correct myself and thus perfect myself

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that there is an invisible force in human relations, where if someone is not congruent, it can be 'picked up' by others as a 'vibe'

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize that I can now hunt down any last point where I am not congruent and correct everything over time, to thus have a 100% pure expression with each person I interact with and thus be an effective creator in all of my relationships

I forgive myself that I had accepted and allowed myself to make commitments like on Day 86 my 30 days of content experiment, and to have failed, and in this I could make excuses but there is no need. I can correct it real time like I did today and I thus progress

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not realize the value of the congruence, where if I want the people around me to act in a way that is congruent and best for all, that this comes first with me doing this within myself

I realize that congruence is the key to creating the world as I want it to be

I realize that congruence is my self-honesty guide within how I apply myself and the actions I take

I realize that congruence is lived in the moment where I can sense when I break an agreement I have made, and thus real time I can correct it instead of letting it accumulate

I commit myself to live congruence in each breath, creating myself as the type of person I know I can be, so I can be the change I want to see in the world

I commit myself to honor congruence in my relationships, by bringing this up as a topic of conversation with others, so that we may hold each other to this higher standard as the social contract that can be the basis of the new world

I commit myself to kill off any and every excuse within me

I commit myself to kill off any conflict within myself toward myself

I comimt myself to show what 100% congruence can look like within a human being